High-signal external reading and listening on ethical non-monogamy. We don't write our own articles (yet) — these are pieces we've genuinely learned from and would point a curious friend toward.
A clear, medically-reviewed primer on what polyamory means and the practical realities of pursuing it. Good starting point if you're new to the vocabulary and want a non-judgemental overview from a high-authority health publication.
A self-assessment-style piece that pairs naturally with our quiz. It surfaces honest questions to ask yourself before pursuing ENM — useful for slowing down the 'just try it' impulse and clarifying your actual motivations.
Jessica Fern wrote Polysecure, the most cited modern book on attachment in non-monogamous relationships. This conversation introduces her HEARTS framework and explains why attachment styles matter more, not less, when you have multiple partners.